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Boating has many hazards. Rocks, thunderstorms and squalls, fires, etc. I even know somebody whose rudder was snapped off by a whale 200 miles off the coast of Nova Scotia.
Kids are now basically required to wear life jackets on board, by law. When I was a kid all we needed to do was to pass a water safety test. I remember some of it: tread water for 5 minutes, swim to the bottom of the pool and come up a few times, swim several laps, take your sneakers and pants off in the pool, grab a life ring in the pool, and things like that.
"Man overboard" - man, woman, or kid - is a chilling event. The most dangerous thing is not noticing, same as with kids around or in a swimming pool. On boats - not ships - It makes sense for somebody to know where people are. Unlike many others, I do not take babies on board.
Our little craft has life jackets of course, a throwable ring, and a Lifesling:
I used to sail on San Francisco Bay. I would never sail without a PFD. I used to have great one that was quite comfortable, but it got stolen. Grrrrr. I am not a fan of the ones that inflate when they get wet. You are dependent on everything being connected correctly, and no issues with the cartridge.
Picking up a man overboard is an important skill, especially in some place like the SF Bay where the water is COLD! A man overboard on the Bay is a may day. You have some one spot the person, someone call the may day on the radio, while the person at the helm tries to rescue them.
The same skill used for shooting a mooring is almost the same needed for picking up a man overboard. And sometimes it is faster to just SAIL than to try and turn on the engine. Especially if you are good at it. (I used to be great a shooting a mooring, but once I moved to the Bay Area, I hardly ever got the change to be at the helm, and none of the boats I sailed on were on moorings.
I have been interested in the idea of "drown proofing" for both adults and babies. See videos on the SEALs BUD's.
With babies, an instructor will have them fall face first into the pool. The falling is important. If you are just jumping in, or climbing, the mental side of it is not as stressed. Clearly that is not a first day kind of experience, but a needed part of the training.
For youths/adults, having someone drop debris like sails / ropes possibly while blindfolded and bound (ankles & wrists) might make sense. I have not seen this, but it feels like it could be incorporated into a typical summer camp water safety course. Or, in your typical back yard pool, a little velcro to bind and then drop a towel on their head where they'll break the surface.
Back in the day, I don't recall if it was at Scout camp or just the city swimming pool, we got instruction on how to pull someone out of the water - at the edge of a pool. This too is a skill to have in your kit.
In college I rowed crew, and one day, one of the boats made a huge error and undid all their gunnels - needed to remove the oars - but that also meant there was no longer any stability - and the boat flipped at the dock. Freezing cold of course. I had an argument with one of my friends, as I grabbed his shirt and held him at the dock, he thought I was trying to lift him out and he didn't want the shirt torn.
Panic comes in many forms. I am thinking of the videos of soldiers picking up their arm after being hit on d-day.